Monday, December 15, 2008
So, I posted alot today and figured it was enough. But I also said I was going to keep it real. So, I'm going post this because it's currently an issue in my life right now, but I'm going to keep it short. I don't want to go into details or someone might get cursed out lol.
But seriously. All jokes aside. So I'm sure some women have heard this over and over again. Cause I know I have. "You're special." "I really care about you." And you know how the rest goes.
However, actions speak louder than words. So although dudes may say this, why don't they live up to it? I would rather a man SHOW me that Im special and that they care about me than to TELL me. That's what's supposed to set them aside from other guys.
And while I'm at it. Why can't dudes do shit they actually say their going to do? Like seriously. Jokes aside. Again. If you say you're going to do something, is it too hard to do it? Like if it is, then don't say you're going to do it. It really gets on my nerves. Like that's the one thing I can say that really pisses me off.
It reminds me of my dead beat ass father, and I'm sure alot of you, males and females, have gone through similar experiences. So imagine that happening to you when you're little, and what it meant to you. Now imagine doing that same exact thing to someone right now. It's the same thing. It's hurtful. It's selfish. And it definitely doesn't say I care about you or think you're special. So think about that the next time you tell someone you're going to do something and don't do it. It may not seem like it affects the other person, but more than likely it does.