Monday, December 15, 2008
Why women cheat
So for the most part, I think it's safe to say that most people cheat, men or women. And then I think it's safe to say men cheat more than women. However, when women do actually cheat, it's usually for a better reason then men and heres why.
Women cheat because they need a full man. Most of the time the man they are in a relationship with are not that full man that we need. A woman needs a man to be there for her physically and emotionally. We need someone to talk to, we need someone to hold us, we need someone to treat us how we deserve to be treated.
Most men think it's all about sex and buying gifts. But honestly, buying gifts can only go but so far. They cannot replace a man, their just a substitute for him not being there. (And in my opinion a poor one)
When women cheat, sex is not necessarily involved. It's to get that love that they need from another man emotionally, or whatever else it is that her man is lacking.
So women need a full man. One who talks to her. Embraces her physically. (yes that includes sex) But also one that loves her, holds her, tells her, etc. And when a woman's man is only there "for her" sexually, that can lead to cheating. So men, think about why you're woman might be cheating on you. Because if you were a full man, she wouldn't need to go elsewhere to complete the man she wanted in you.
Im not necessarily condoning it, but I think it's better than when a man cheats (with a few exceptions). Both men and women have needs, but we'll talk about that in another post :)